It is always the obvious that proves challenging and communication between doctor and patient is no exception.
by Betsy M. Cohen, CRC, LRC, CCM, ABDA
In 2012, I left a pile of paperwork on my desk convinced that I would complete it later that afternoon when I returned from my first colonoscopy. It never occurred to me that morning that my colon would be perforated, that my insistence that something had gone wrong during the procedure would be ignored, and that I would require emergency surgery to resect my colon. I did not imagine that I would wake up in an intensive care unit and face a series of complications and mistakes that would change my body and life forever.
I did not imagine that I would
wake up in an intensive care unit
and face a series of complications
and mistakesthat would change
my body and life forever.
If you or a loved has one experienced a medical accident or an unexpected outcome from a medical procedure or hospitalization, perhaps this sort of nightmare sounds familiar. You know the surreal feeling of losing control of your health, of being engaged in battle to regain your physical and mental equilibrium while desperately attempting to find your way back to some semblance of a quality life.
I have worked in and around health care for 30 years, but was unable to prevent three medical errors resulting from a routine procedure. Ultimately, I survived and created a new way to flourish by actively taking control of my well-being. During my recovery, I wrote a book to help others navigate their health crises and reclaim their lives.
Here are the most important tips that I offer to anyone endeavoring to overcome medical challenges.
1. Advocate. One of the most difficult things to do when you are lying vulnerable in a hospital bed is to feel powerful, able, and strong. Each of us needs an advocate regardless of our physical condition or well being. Solicit a family member, friend, or case manager at the hospital to listen with you to your doctor’s recommendations and advocate on your behalf.
Be certain that everyone involved in your care knows your wishes about pain medication, additional tests and procedures, as well as what kind of heroic measures you sanction as a component of your care. If you have allergies especially to medications, review these with each new provider involved in your care.
Never assume that each doctor or nurse has thoroughly read your chart or is aware of your medical history. Health care providers are human and mistakes occur. Speak up to prevent additional complications whenever feasible.
2. Be Open. You may have a speedy and complete recovery after a medical accident or, like me, your body may only experience a partial restoration of function. Become an open-minded and educated consumer of medical and health services by inquiring about all of your treatment options.
Discuss any interest you have in exploring complementary, alternative medicine, and rehabilitation therapies with your doctors. Complementary and rehabilitation treatment providers tend to focus on function and prevention with the goal of maximizing your physical, emotional, spiritual, and behavioral health. Treatments such as acupuncture; cranial sacral therapy,; occupational, physical, and speech therapy; biofeedback; and mindfulness training are but a few of the possible adjunct services that you may find helpful, with regard to pain management, improved sleep, and learning to regain your capacity to manage your day-to-day responsibilities irrespective of whatever illnesses or chronic conditions may continue to persist.
3. Communicate. It is always the obvious that proves challenging and communication between doctor and patient is no exception. When you experience a medical crisis, your health care team will often be focused on the technical aspects of what transpired and what they need to do to stabilize your health. None of that changes your need or right to know what is happening to your body, what efforts are being made to rectify the medical issues that exist, and your treatment team’s thoughts about your prognosis. Trusting your providers is important, but blind trust benefits neither patient nor doctor.
Be certain to speak up and talk to your doctors about concerns that you have related to your health or healing. No matter how invested anyone is in your care, you are the only person who will eventually go home and live with your body, as well as the impact that these medical events will have on your health. If your medical team is not communicating the information that you need to hear, don’t be afraid to initiate that conversation to assure yourself that everyone is committed to your best possible recovery outcome.
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||Betsy M. Cohen is a Certified and Licensed Rehabilitation Counselor, a Certified Case Manager, and an American Board Certified Senior Disability Analyst specializing in the treatment of individuals who are affected by neurological and neuropsychiatric conditions and chronic illnesses. She is the author of Illness To Wellness: Reclaiming Your Life After A Medical Crisis. Ms. Cohen is also a member of the American Society of Professionals in Patient Safety (ASPPS) at NPSF.